Ask any couple, and he or she will, after blushing and hemming, vouch with confidence that good communication is the bedrock on any thriving relationship. This opens up an interesting case for us to examine the relationship between communication modes and romance, especially in the olden days.
Clearly if we have to believe the movies that we have watched, Romeo and Juliet (The epitome of romance) had poor communication between them leading to a grave situation which they finally found themselves in. apparently they used messengers, who were either killed/shot dead or who would wander away to sell the hot stories to tabloids. The letters reaching too late or sometimes never at all. Naturally most love stories died in the budding days because of poor communication, and a cry rose for advanced communication modes.
Postal services would have helped romances better, letters laden with long poems, prose, perfumes and heart shaped diagrams would have caused much joy to Juliet and Romeo, but there is still one problem with postal services, letter though, they always outlive the romance and pop-up in tattered conditions at fragile moments in matrimonial life, causing distress, bad words and divorce. Romeo and Juliet divorced?? Not a good advertisement for any service that is promoting romance.
To avoid these tattered letters, Romeo and Juliet could have used the ubiquitous STD/ISD booths. They could have spoken for as long as their hearts and pockets allowed them to, planned better and run off into the romantic sunset locations without this poison business. Or, if they had waited for more, they could have used emails, which could have averted all the tragedy.
Romeo and Juliet could have easily created email id’s with user names like “crazylover123”, “tender rose” and maintained a secret liaison without anyone’s knowledge, with the exception of “Server not responding” messaged could have been sent and received for quick and clear action on either side. A well worded email b’cced to all, and they would have remained happily married ever after.
Cell Phones? Even better. Why send a mail, which if forgotten to delete, could bring a lot of inconvenience, Also they could sit next to each other and sweetly speak to each other. SMSes could be used only for forceful messages, and since all villains would be busy fidgeting with their cell phones, there wouldn’t have been any problems of any sorts.
But no communication mode can beat Romeo and Juliet being on Facebook or Orkut or Twitter. Connect, propose, marry, upload pictures and videos on both accounts and everyone in the world knows right then…. Broken hearts, happy families, friends, many birds with one post…. A more efficient method is yet to be found though…
Apart from benefitting the cause of romance, my big theory is that Romeo and Juliet would have lived much longer if they have been Facebook, Orkut or Twitter. Juliet could have just tweeted minutes before consuming poison and Romeo and his 100 odd friends (and their 2000 friends) and 1000 followers would have known instantly. They would have done something and set everything right, right away.
The downside is that Romeo and Juliet (800 friends) would not have attained their cult status. If one was to change their status as single after a small tiff, we would instantly know that Romeo was single, and that Juliet also by default, and that would have brought an end to all…